Like if a son goes out in the rain, the mother should stand at the door and worry about the son till he comes back Wheel of Types water Pokemon shirt. Otherwise, she is not a good mother. Or that an ideal wife should serve everyone first and then eat. The ‘respect’ a woman gets in India is highly conditional. It comes with a novella-long clause. And if she doesn’t fit into those rules, society demeans her. My grandmother would also say the same thing. But during her school days, she was someone who topped the class and was shown as an example to the failures. At one point in time, she too would have had ‘personal’ dreams and ambitions like everyone.