Why do they do that but the bigger question is Under quarantine toilet paper funny shirt! I’ll tell you what was told to me… your time would be better served trying to figure out why it is you respond. For them you’re only as good as their next best option. They will never change however you can. The magic word is hope. Your hope. If you can get to that place where you know in your heart of hearts they will never change you can then get yourself to higher ground and not be sucked back in. Take back control over your own thoughts/emotions and you will soon find that they can never hurt you again no matter how hard they may try.