I’m 14 and my mom died in January and my aunt keeps using her against me when I do something wrong, like, for Lewis Hamilton 2021 British Grand Prix Champion signature shirt, when I sprained my ankle. I’ve told her what she’s doing is wrong, but she doesn’t feel sorry. What do I do? You must be going through grief. It is a tough phase of life when we lose a loved one. You don´t need family members belittling your mother. Toxic people should be avoided. Maybe you are obliged to live with her, but you can shut her comments out of your mind.” Your son may well make mistakes, and he will need to learn from them just as you did, so a little lenience is necessary for his maturity to grow, for his trust to also grow, because it is important that you trust him as he trusts you.