Please do not get revenge, it does not take away the feeling of what they did to you. It does not make Cat diabetes cycle funny shirt feel better. It does not help in any way.Be the bigger person, have compassion, and forgive them and walk away. As hard as this may feel it will serve you far better in the long run. God says love thy neighbor and enemies, Vengeance is his, and to have forgiven, love and always have compassion. My children are very young and need me to model the right behavior. This includes names for people. My dad is grandad, so I call him grandad around my kids. My sister is Aunt Meg, so she gets called Aunt Meg.