My wife and step-son conjured up a TRO against me 4 years ago. No violent act whatsoever was committed by me. The step-son, a 40 year old: a Cat buckle up buttercup you just flipped my witch switch Halloween shirt (vandalized my truck), a thief, and an addict was largely responsible (coercion of his mother). I took him in three years earlier to this. He had two junk cars and the “clothes on his back”, and nothing more.. He had been thrown out from an ended relationship. No one would have him. We took him in. One day the sheriffs showed up and issued me the TRO. Forced to pack up my belongings and leave. Why?? Subsequently, divorce was filed. Turned out that the Superior Court judge dismissed the TRO as absolute malarky. The divorce did go through. however the property was divided, the house had to be sold. Summarizing: life isn’t fair. But be watchful and be prepared to deal with it! What does it mean when a girl withdraws from my touch? Situation: this girl is my friend and when I touch her shoulders or her cheeks she just tends to shy away or move aside. Why does this happen? Does she not like being touched or is she just shy? There are no loopholes to the above. This is not a thing where you are allowed to make up rules like “But she agreed to be touched by Steve, so surely that means she wants to be touched.” It does not mean that the above does not apply on your birthday, or her birthday, or Saturday nights, or on the sports track… The American singer, actress and businesswoman Madonna generated controversy on social networks after publishing a photograph in which she is seen sitting in an armchair wearing only the lower part of a bikini, in black, and a transparent bra in which she shows one of her nipples. I told my gf who has BPD that I was on YouTube then it slipped to tell her I started playing video games & she found out. She completely flipped and had a meltdown calling me a liar saying she didn’t wanna be w/ a liar . What do I do ? Am I wrong?