There’s a group for those who have family members who are addicts/alcoholics, called AlAnon; yeah, it started as an Black cat fully vaccinated still not a hugger shirt to AA, but any family members of those with any addiction are welcome, in order to learn about the addiction, how to deal with those who are addicted in ways that won’t help them stay addicted — how to not “enable” them, and become co-dependent. That’s hard all by itself! My daughter got her 2nd period and for 11 days she had brown discharge and dark red blood, and on the 12th day she had bright red blood. Is this normal (today is the12th day of her period)? The best thing to do, since she lost so much blood, is to take her to a doctor where you can explain exactly when she got her first period and all of the above.